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[quote=Anonymous]Sounds like you want the idea of sex more than you want to have sex.

I have a friend who was a virgin until marriage (at 25) and then was too scared to pull the trigger on her wedding night.  She literally faked falling asleep so she didn't have to do the deed.  She did a group call with me and another of our good friends the next morning from the airport bathroom where she was crying, absolutely terrified that she'd have to have sex that night and couldn't possibly fake sleeping again.

She did it that night to kick off their honeymoon and then spent the next 3.5 hours texting back and forth with me and others in a group chat on how horrible it was and how she thought she'd made a huge mistake with the marriage.  Um, no.  The mistake was not the marriage, it was buying into the notion that your self-worth was tied to what's between your legs.  She was literally looking up flights back to DC and figuring out if she could get an annulment.  We'd talk her down, she'd go to bed, and then the scene would repeat the next night after having horrible sex.  It was probably the next to last or last day of their honeymoon when we got a text from her that said "it kind of felt good last night & i didn't feel like i was dying during or after it."  Even to this day she remembers nothing about what they did on their honeymoon other than how much she hated the sex and how terrifying it was for her.  I know we had sex during our honeymoon, sure, but what I remember most is all of the adventures we went on during that time.      [/quote]

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