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[quote=Anonymous]Oh boy. Theoretically, remaining a virgin until marriage sounds like a valid and perfectly fine option, IF you choose that option. But let's be real: today in our society it's not typical, and it doesn't translate well to a healthy and equal sexual relationship. I get that you want it to be picture perfect. I get that he wants to do it already. I get that if you cave and do it while fighting/on a weeknight/on your period you'll feel violated because it's not your ideal. That said, it's likely you might feel this way regardless because you have chosen a path that has loaded a lot of weight and expectations and shame into sex. That's sad, truly. I don't know what my advice is. Perhaps you two need to sit down, schedule a weekend away, get it over with, then schedule another sit down to rehash and discuss BOTH of your expectations for what your sex life might look like. I'd plan to have this conversation monthly since you don't know what that looks like yet. [/quote]
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