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[quote=Anonymous]NP. Your DH sounds a lot like mine, except w/o the affair. I'm very sorry that you are going through this. Noone deserves to be treated like this. I'm considering the same things you are, and starting counseling (for myself) this week. DH has agreed to get counseling himself but I'm doubtful it'll help since you have to have a certain amount of humility for that to work.

For those who have seen this play out, with the kids, how do girls respond? I have two girls (elem school) and TBH they call out their dad on any negative sh*t immediately and constantly defend me (even though I've asked them not to). They are at this point where they really just don't like their dad very much because they hear him constantly criticizing everything I do. Right now, they are really respectful of me.

I'm concerned about custody - pretty sure DH will want joint, and the kids are not very bonded to him. But w/o physical abuse/substance addiction/affair, its pretty much guaranteed we'll be 50-50 right? I'm concerned he'll start just belittling *them* when they are with him, without me. [/quote]

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