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[quote=Anonymous]     He is having a midlife crisis & thinks he can deal with his aging body and relationship issues by finding a youthful woman who will think he is wonderful. And she will find him wonderful because he will treat her with respect, lavishing time, attention & money on her. She will be happy because she will not be dealing with his dirty underwear, kids and all the other domestic issues. 
He will divorce you and marry one of these women, who will be the "I want my career"  type of women. Then "OOPS" she will get pregnant or as his wife, she will constantly nag him about "just one child". And after she has a kid, she will be even more of a problem because as his career wanes & he has to pay for the first kids, she will be a lot less understanding. And God help him if he gets sick with a chronic disease like diabetes or high blood pressure, where he needs medicine which will make it difficult to keep up with her. 
     Maybe a counselor can help him think through the ramifications of his actions.  But he seems he is almost pushing you to be the "bad guy" and to divorce him. 
     As others have said, step up your game. Get yourself together, get a job, get fit, get your self-esteem back. He needs to do many of the things he would be required to do if you split up- his laundry, driving the kids, etc.

Sometimes you can't stop the plane from crashing and burning, no matter how much you love him. He has to think this through.

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