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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wait, so your good friend told you all of this? That he’s been liking his exes pictures, as well as the history of their breakup?  Yet she was the one to set you both up?
Seems kind of weird. [/quote]

What is her take on things? Does she think this guy is hung up on his ex? Had things been going south for a while or was he blindsided/heartbroken by the breakup? Had he been happy in the relationship, but his ex wasn’t? We’re they fighting or incompatible?  What was the reason for the breakup? We need more detail.

I’d definitely be very cautious here. It’s also possible his ex will get jealous when she learns he’s dating someone else and will try again to reconcile.[/quote]

This is her SO’s good  friend. She knew he was on the market, but didn’t know that he had been liking her pictures until recently. When she saw that he was she told me.

From what I know they had been arguing quite a bit and she thought he had been insecure about some things. He on the other hand didn’t believe he was being insecure. The week they had broken up he was talking to her sister telling her how much he wanted to fix things and wanted things to work. A few days later she broke up with him, so I guess he was blindsided? When she went to reconcile he told her they argued too much and he wasn’t being paranoid about his insecurities. After he turned her away he bombarded her with messages. Saying things like the breakup really screwed with him, how he wanted to stay but couldn’t, etc. Then eventually the this is hard for me/struggling text followed. [/quote]

If your friend thought these things were insignificant, she wouldn't have even mentioned them. She told you because she thinks they may be red flags. Also, how do you know all of this stuff about their break-up? Did he tell you or did your friend? If the latter, does he know you've been told all of this? It kind of sounds like your friend likes drama and may be dragging you along for the ride by setting you up with this guy.[/quote]

This is her SO’s friend. She didn’t know he was still liking her pictures. When she found out she told me and gave me more details on the breakup.[/quote]

And she told you this because she thinks there is cause of concern there.

OP, it's really up to you. If you want to keep going with this relationship, then go for it and stop asking everyone else's opinion. But arguing with us isn't going to change anything about him.[/quote]

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