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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m saying up front I’m not a fan of my 13 yo nephew.

My BIL is here helping me work on my house. He brought my nephew, which I’m fine with.

I have one guest room with a queen sized bed. And a loveseat that pulls out to a twin. My nephew is sleeping in the guest room leaving his 6’4” father in my living room on the twin. They slept this way at my sisters house a couple of weeks ago even though she tried to have BIL take the guest room. This is just one example of how that family bends over backwards for their son (they also have a daughter who always plays second fiddle for everything).

I find this SO disrespectful. Completely unacceptable behavior towards a parent.

Can I insist that my guest room is for adults only? And, if so, when should I make it clear this won’t be happening again? In the morning? Next time they come?

And, just to get ahead of anyone saying ‘just be happy he’s helping you.” I’m paying my BIL $1,200 for about 7 hours of work in my basement because he’s out of a job. My handyman quoted me $700. [/quote]

You can forbid smoking or something. But this just sounds spiteful and controlling, and no, you cannot do this and you really should consult a mental health professional to diagnose your character deficiency that causes you to even think this way. This is not normal, OP. [/quote]

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