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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The choice is never limited to ex guy or next guy, as so many woman think it is. My guess OP, at 32, senses her clock ticking, which drives so many women to stupid choices. Don’t settle! Oh, and don’t EVER move in with any man unless you have a ring on your finger and a near-term firm wedding date set.[/quote] Pp here. This is good advice. Except I think (me at 35 on my 2nd divorce, first marriage at 18), that living with someone before agreeing to marriage is the better idea. Once we start setting dates and planning weddings, we find it harder to get out of. Maybe I am wrong. So much becomes clear when we live with someone. My first husband was meticulous, clean and presentable. We moved in when we got married and I found out all that was a front. Maybe the answer is, if you move in with someone, still keep the lease on your apartment. Or have an easy backup plan in case things go wrong. Like a friend/family with a room.[/quote]
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