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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. I should step up because they don't like to call or visit us? I'm already struggling here. I don't want to add to my plate. [/quote]

But yet you want their help.  So do what you have to do to get it.  You can't have it both ways:  you can't complain that they are out of touch if you don't keep them in touch.  And you can't complain they don't help when they don't know that you need the help.  They are not omniscient and it doesn't sound like the Wizard is being of much assistance so start the communication yourself so you can stop complaining that they aren't helping you.[/quote]

They know we need help because they're aware of my parents coming to help. I know no one owes me anything. I'm just annoyed they don't help at all but still want us to visit them. They never call. It's so one sided. [/quote]

In an earlier post you said  you ask your parents for help.  Do you ask DH's parents?  They aren't mind readers.[/quote]

And you also said they don’t come visit you. Not necessarily they’re JUST bugging YOU to go THERE. Have you invited them? Or do you just want them to show up uninvited? Because then you’d be on here saying they have no boundaries and it’s so rude they just show up. [/quote]

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