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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So you want to be with a man who is crying every day, wants to attend couples therapy(with you, even though you are not together, wants your babies, and his life is over without you?  Yeah, sounds like you need somebody to make big decisions for you. More like a stalker, end up dead scenario, and is most likely sleeping around the whole time even now. Is he good looking?  [/quote]

What exactly do you miss OP?  Are you sure it isn’t the challenge that you miss because it sounds like you never got to see the faithful, honest, loving, handling his mental sh$$, wants real committment persona that ex is saying he is now.  You were in love with the person you thought he was, not the person he actually is.  You are banking on him really having changed when you should be thinking if he always struggles with depression, PSTD, and perhaps faithfulness, will still be worth being in a long term relationship with him above anyone elsr.

It seems more the ego of not wanting to be the bottle opener.  You know the woman the guy treated like crap right before he turns things around and is the right guy for the next woman. On a fairness level it just seems wrong to have gone thru what you did so he can potentially be a great guy for someone else.  But you have to look at the other side that maybe the crappy relationship changed you or something similar changed your SO to make you right for each other and made it the right time when you met.[/quote]

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