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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Again, thank you to everyone.

Here’s the thing- I’ve never once though that I had this peculiar attraction to unavailable men. The first guy, was very manipulative and the second guy has horrible ptsd/ depression that wasn’t clear to me until the end. He was very good at hiding his ‘issues’ and was always happy / fun / engaging etc. 
When people say ‘unavailable men’ they don’t just mean literally unavailable (like already in a relationship)?  Because I’ve never *once* been interested in a man who was taken. Im guessing you mean emotionally unavailable etc? Has issues? 
(Bare with me, I’m learning.)[/quote]Yes.  You could add to that men that need you to take care of them and it's appealing because it puts you in a position of control but it's not a relationship on equal footing.  I may be reading too much into your story so apologies if I am.  But it sounds like you should take a closer look at what is going on with you rather than what is going on with the guy.[/quote]

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