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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People aren’t interchangeable pieces that can be matched up just because they are all nice, attractive, and want to get married.

For friends and for me, marriage finally came when we met guys who saw us as the women of their dreams. After years of thinking we needed to do something different, we didn’t do anything different but simply met the right person. We matched for deep psychological reasons. We had something they always wanted—family status, brains, or what have you. Something that hadn’t been so important to others we had dated. Our race was what they always wanted and not something they were tolerating. Our personalities were compatible but also had some mismatches where we were opposite and could grow.

Things progressed smoothly to marriage, and no one said they had doubts, needed space, or any of those problems that had happened in the past. We fit together as family members.[/quote]

I am the OP, and I appreciate this. I think you are right. This happened to a friend of mine. She was divorced with children, and a very beautiful woman. Her dating life just wasn't working out. Then someone she went to college with reconnected with her online, and she turned out to be the woman of his dreams. He adored her and her life, just the way she was, and they got married. In fact, their love inspired me to not settle for anything less than a man who absolutely adores me.

So thank you for reminding me that perhaps there is someone out there who will want and adore me just as I am.[/quote]

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