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[quote=Anonymous]It sucks to be insecure and it's hard to feel like another part of the family is favored over you. Why do you go for both holidays instead of one? It might be time to change this. You do need to work on your insecurity, because you've got a long road ahead if you dont. Let it go. They are not perfect. Find and play up your own strenghts. If you think they do something so well, either learn how to do it well, or own the fact that you dont, and do it proudly your own way. Don't roll your eyes at their perfection, especially if it's petty like perfectly wrapped gifts. If they enjoy it and are good at it, that reflects on them, not you. Every family has its drama or annoying people to be around. Have a drink and find someone you enjoy talking to. It's just a few days out of year.[/quote]
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