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[quote=Anonymous]OP here - it's a combination of living frugally AND saving for retirement. I do not expect my siblings or their kids to care for me as I get older. There are numerous times where I've helped pick up the pieces for them in their life situations (kids, childcare, separations, etc) but I am completely not counting on anything in return. I don't ask them for anything.

As for how to phrase things - those are great points. I don't describe my own life as mediocre, but it is what others might describe it as - and not living up to my potential. I consider my life to be full, free, and with less stress. For the most part I feel very content with things. But there is always (or may always be) a disconnect between how I perceive my life (fulfilled), vs. how others do (mediocre). Many of you may be right that convincing is futile. I know they talk behind my back, and I'm sure things will come out during the holidays. Perhaps it is what it is, but it would be nice to have a family member be happy for me, instead of constantly casting judgment about not filling the mold, and being a bit of a black sheep.

In any case, thanks for the many replies. I'll keep them in mind these next couple of months.[/quote]

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