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[quote=Anonymous]This is one of those "you made your choice, accept the consequences" situations. OP chose to have an extremely fancy party and limit invitations in a way that pretty much guaranteed that the 4th neighbor girl would feel left out. That was OP's choice and arguably not unreasonable. But OP has to live with the ENTIRELY PREDICTABLE consequences of the girl feeling left out and the mother talking about it. You don't get to both throw exclusive parties, and not have people hurt and upset when they don't get invited to your exclusive parties. Agree with other PPs that the person you really hurt was your DD. You should have considered the social dynamics and allowed her to invite neighbor #4. [/quote]
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