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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So you think these two guys are so delicate that they can't handle rejection from a "pretty attractive" woman and will slander your name so much that you can't hang out with the group anymore, ruining your chances with hot guy? Yea, okay.

Most people are more mature than that, but if you are still worried, pull the ol' "thanks but I'm not dating at the moment so I can focus on myself". Yea, they'll see right through it, but it allows everyone to save some face.

For hot guy- if you wouldn't be embarrassed if he rejected you and word got out, then go ahead and ask a mutual friend for his info. If you would be embarrassed, then just bide your time and wait to run into him again. As for it being creepy, it depends on how hot he thinks you are. Hot= not creepy. Not hot=creepy. But in my experience, guys you have to push like this tend to make very little effort even if they are interested, or are only interested in sex and nothing else. [/quote]

Thanks.  I worry that the "not dating at the moment" thing might spread out and make me unable to date anyone else in the group- but I suppose you're right, they'll probably understand what it means and take it in kind.  They seem like sweet dudes, so I also want to spare their feelings somewhat.

As for the hot guy, I know he thinks I'm hot, but him being lazy is part of my concern.  But I'm not looking for anything super serious soulmatey, so I feel like it's fine if he's lazy.  I'm honestly kind of bored since I moved to this city and I want someone to hang out with who I also want to bone.  So he kind of fits the bill.  Not that I'm looking for an f-buddy either.  But I feel like if he's a lazy schmuck it won't annoy me too much (although it did occur to me) [/quote]

So he’s lazy and you’re easy. You don’t need to date anyone. You need to work on yourself. [/quote] Truer words have never been spoken.[/quote]

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