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[quote=Anonymous]i see lots of red flags here.  She may be an introvert, but she should still have friends and regularly interact with people.  She shouldn't be shopping all day.... is she filling some kind of void?  She sounds depressed and I think she needs help.  Please approach it from a caring perspective.... your wife is probably hurting and needs some help getting back to feeling good and being around people again.

The country club issue is a non-issue.  I don't know your wife, but the CC may not be her seen and she may not value it.  And that is fine!  I do think she should have some kind of social outlet or friends or group.

Your daughter can do tennis and sports without doing it at the country club.  Your daughter is four.  She is young and resilient.  Your wife needs help.  Please get her some help and instead of resenting her for where she is try to have compassion and care for her.  And i totally understand how it can turn into resentment!  I really can see how that happens because you just want a happy family and socializing and being happy is easy for you and you don't understand why she can't just do it.  She seems stuck though.

I am an introvert and parties and groups make me uncomfortable, but i find ways to be social and have connection to other people.  Everyone needs that. I think it's concerning that she is so isolated.[/quote]

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