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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel like the subtext here is that you make a lot of money but aren't from a UC background. And you have the mistaken idea that joining a CC and putting your daughter in tennis is what the type of person you aspire to be would do. And you resent that your wife isn't enthusiastic about social climbing like you.

you really need to look at your values. You say that you worry about the effect that your wife being antisocial will have on your daughter yet you are planning to divorce your daughters mother when she is 6 without even attempting counseling or to understand what is wrong with your wife? How do you picture your custody situation post divorce considering she is a SAHM? My guess would be her with full physical and you with visitation. Get a grip. Figure it out. This is who you chose to procreate with. It's not a surprise that she would change as change is inevitable. You need to do the work to have a good relationship and it does not sound like you have done anything other than complain, dream of moving up in society, and threaten to leave. [/quote]

I agree with the subtext here.  I am going to add that the wife in this situation probably IS from an UC background, which is part of the reason he married her.  And if she was good at the social climbing stuff, she never would have married OP.[/quote]

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