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         I think you should leave her alone but..........

I'll never understand the "stay at home mom" that puts her kid in daycare for 6 hours a day, that's only 2 hours short of an entire workday. That is bizarre.

I'm a SAHM of five with a toddler and the most I've done is a 3 day a week, 3 hour a day preschool. Did I mention I run my own business as well? It's NOT an mlm, it's my own business.

If she wants to be anti-social, let her be. If it's a tipping point in the marriage, separate. [/quote]

I was depressed as a SAHM. I got even more depressed when we put DD in daycare (a spot opened up at the one we liked and I was trying to get a job). It's just not healthy to sit around all day doing nothing. Like OP's DW, I also didn't want to socialize and filled my day with shopping.

That being said, no way in hell would I want to socialize with people at a country club. I grew up going to one and they are the phoniest people I've ever met. Plus, the food always sucks. I also don't get why you want a 4 year old to learn tennis, that's pretty young.

I think you should talk to your DW about her working again, even if it's part time, and find social outlets other than a country club. And counseling for you both. It's tough being depressed, and equally tough being the spouse of someone who is depressed. [/quote]

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