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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds snarky, but this is a genuine question. Truly, what should you be doing during that time period? And yes, this is something I am facing so I can only focus on the negative right now (being alone through the holidays, birthday, etc) and I want to know what makes that loneliness worth it. Because I can't see how it matters how many new hobbies I get, or how many friends I have, or how great of a family I have, or how much I go to the gym, I'm still going home to an empty house at the end of the night. Am I supposed to figure out how to enjoy this first and that's how I know I am "ready"? [/quote] You need to figure out what went wrong the first time, how you contributed to it (even if, or perhaps especially if, you pick bad partners), you need to work on your weaknesses, and only then should you think about dating.[/quote]
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