Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Eldercare
Reply to "old friend dropped bombshell - would love your insights"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]Although this would shock me, I would try to frame it less personally. It may be that the friend and your DH were not compatible and that can make it an uncomfortable friendship at least from her perspective. The incident itself may have been the excuse she needed and so she gave it more importance than it warranted. That’s why it’s so strange to you, you are viewing it singularly. She sounds like she handles things internally and is not good at direct communication. She may not have been able to get through the awkwardness of contacting you for those major events with this perceived stumbling block. This meeting may have been her attempt at clearing the air now that she is older and wiser but not much better at communicating. You shouldn’t feel crappy about it – I get the impression that despite the shock you handled it gracefully. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
