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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I guess that part of this depends on how you read the guy's comments. It sounds like he likes her a lot but feels that they dove in together to quickly. He forthrightly told her about this because he doesn't want his lowering of the tempo to come across as him being not interested. As punishment for him feeling the same way as her, she wants to subject him to a lot of manipulative bullsh*t.[/quote]

OP here. Sure, I guess it would be manipulative- but hate the game, not the player. I don't want to be some back burner b*tch. He is still calling and texting and wants to get together, I'm just trying to figure out how to navigate so I don't come across as desperate. I could get a date, easily, but this guy is a real catch and I want to play my cards right. [/quote]

OP, its easy to tell if you are the “back burner bitch” if you take a step back.  If he only booty calls, back burner botch. Wont make a date for you for a sat night, you dont meet his friends or see his place, back burner.  Does he want to meet your friends, take an interest in your hobbies and your life? Does he make time for you at your convenience (not just his)?  That means he likes you.  Do you really find it necessary to stick to hard and fast rules like “dont accept dates for a sat after wed” to tell if someone likes you?

Re playing hard to get in general though, why *arent* you hard to get? Dont you have your own friends and hobbies and plans and Past times? Or are you dropping your own life to see this giy?[/quote]

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