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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree with others than this type of anger is a symptom of a bigger problem. It could be work related stress, family issues etc. My DH has a temper and lost it over bills a couple of times but even he doesn't drag it on like this, for him it's a 2-3 min angry rant and that's it. I will share one thing though, if I miss a bill or payment and he loses it, I never argue or try to justify the mistake. I am not saying your reaction was wrong, it's just so that some people don't do great with provocation.[/quote]

No, just no. This kind of attitude is just sad to hear. I am truly feeling sad for you. He will rant at you and you just take it?  WTF?![/quote]

There's no need to feel sad for me, we have a solid, happy, warm marriage in which my DH makes pretty much no decision without my input. Now, he's also someone who doesn't appreciate arguments (actually neither do I) when other person has clearly dropped the ball. There are times when HE has to sit and listen and not say a word because it will make the situation worse and there are times when he doesn't need further provocation and it's best If I say quiet and move on. I am very old school in some ways, I would rather bite my tongue at that moment and then have a really "good" discussion when the person has calmed down. Btw, I do this with pretty much everyone, I fight at my own timing, which means I try to act, not react.

And, no my DH is not abusive or cold or a bad provider. You have to understand other person's temperament and then handle situations, and this is true for husbands as well as wives.

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