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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A few question...

1. how tight is your budget?
2. how is his job going?
3. what type of stress is he under?

NOTE: Regarding #3 you can't objectively answer that because my wife has never been empathetic enough to recognize the million things in my mind that I'm working out regarding my job and other stuff. Yeah... kind of a trick question....

My point is that, if I use myself as a barometer, I have capacity to handle little things that go wrong in life BUT when the sum total of all the things I'm dealing with build up my capacity to deal with them gets stretched. When that happens minor things can easily set me off.

For example, in your case I can see how the late bill might have put him at about 95% of his limit (you said he wasn't upset about the late bill) but then your flippant (very high probability that you were being a bit of a smarty pants) statement about I did it before I can do it again pushed him to his breaking point.

Maybe you need to step outside of your own head for a moment and consider things from his perspective.
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NP. This is just idiotic. So, any abuser has the reason to abuse? And OP should be in tune with his stress levels? Absolutely not. I don't give a crap if my day or your day is bad, I am responsible for treating other people, and especially my spouse and family with respect. So, people have to walk on egg shells around you or they might SET YOU OFF? You sound insane and an abuser. [b]Guess what? Absolute rubbish[/b].[/quote]

yes, your reply to this poster is absolute rubbish.

If we fall for your straw-woman argument then anyone who get upset (at any point in their life) is an abuser. Your argument is idiotic. [/quote]

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