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[quote=Anonymous]Ok, lots of questions.  Let's see.  He's normally a very polite person.  We do have kids early elem, but they generally will come looking for me first so him being gone doesn't impact them much.  One reason I tell him I'm leaving is so he knows he's primary on kid duty, but this predates kids.

I don't think I talk more than most people, though I guess it's possible.  It's not unheard of that I'll ask for 1-2 things from target, but I'd go myself if it was more than a couple of things.  Also, if he went to target without me knowing and I wanted something, he'd be fine with going back.  He doesn't mind errands much unless there's been a ton of running around (probably enjoys the peace of the car!).  There also may be some bit of having control that's at play, although I'm not trying to stop him from leaving.  When he tells me he's leaving, there's no drama around it; it's understood that he'll go alone.

He didn't tell me in the morning he was leaving for target at a certain time.  He told me in the morning that he was going to target at some point in the weekend.

Who knows, I guess I could have undiagnosed ADD; I'm certainly more forgetful than most people but I'm usually ok so long as my systems are in place.  I don't see a problem with leaving purse in car in garage; this issue has never come up before because I don't need money at home.  Calling this the start of a porno movie is very funny, btw!

Usually it's not WW3; I don't want to exaggerate the effect.  Mostly it's one of those things you learn to live with, but this time was particularly galling.   After reading pp's, it sounds like it's unusual but not unheard of.[/quote]

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