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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I understand you are feeling upset and abandoned, but your mother is in a much worse situation. It sounds like the stress is getting to her but she can’t do anything about it because those poor kids need her. I don’t have any advice other than take the long view and try to feel some compassion for your mom.[/quote] I'm a PP. Those "poor kids" have two parents. Grandma is choosing to look after them. She is creating her own situation, and she can certainly do something about it, but chooses not to. Her fault/ her problem.[/quote] THIS x one million. TO all the stupid posters being bitchy to the OP, reread the OP. This person's mom is choosing to put herself in that situation. Those kids have two parents. It seems like the step grandma has chosen herself to be put in that situation. The kids can always go to daycare or have a nanny. It's ridiculous that OP can't even get an hour of her mom's time because those kids come first constantly. [/quote] You fell for OP's spiel, PP. She posted about this some time ago and managed to annoy everyone at that time, too. She just won't ever see anybody else's side of the argument except her own. Last time she was complained how stressed she was moving by herself without help, and put that on her family as well. Being so young and helpless, you know :-) [/quote] I'm the OP and I have no bloody clue what you're referring to. I never posted this before. [/quote] There was a post some months ago about someone coming back from abroad, very stressed at having to pack up boxes, and very upset at being refused the family home to stay in. The scenario was the same: family member divorcing his wife and him and his kids being cared for by your mother. Same language. You're busted, OP. [/quote]
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