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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does she reach out to you by text and initiate plans with you?  If so, I would think she is into you and after two months it's appropriate to have a talk about what each of you is looking for.  I'm busy-single mom working full time. I'm dating someone I really like, but for me seeing him once, maybe twice, a week is perfect. Even if I did have more time, I don't want to be connected at the hip with someone. I was dating someone else who I also liked, but just wanted way more of my time than I wanted to share.  [/quote]

Op here. Yes. She regularly texts and calls me. I have seen her twice since I wrote this post. One was just a quick dinner before class, and the second time she stayed over at my place. I am not going to push for an exclusivity talk because I don't want to push her away.

Not all nurses are promiscuous. I have two nurses in my family who are not anything close to being a slut. [/quote]

OP - thanks for coming back and updating. Sounds like things are good.

I think I was the pp that initially brought up exclusivity. I don't think that conversation will scare her away. It should answer your question and possibly, if she's as into you as you are her, allow her to exhale. Right now, she might be stressing that she's not giving you enough attention and could be concerned that it could open the door for another woman to steal you away. The exclusivity talk could open the door for things like her being comfortable enough to just swing by your house to spend the night after a day of studying and work. I understand I'm speculating but I just wanted to open your eyes to the possibility. Given your description of your relationship, the exclusivity talk won't scare her. I was concerned, based on your initial post, that you were going to go beyond that and possibly even introduce an ultimatum. I was concerned because I thought that might be a mistake. Your more recent posts make me realize I misread it. Handle how you want. Sounds like you have a good grip on things. Just wanted to point out that exclusivity isn't likely to scare a woman given you current situation. It's perfectly appropriate and likely will be anticipated soon.

Only other advice I can offer is shrug off the troll and haters. They live for reactions to their posts. Ignoring them frustrates them.

Good luck. Let us know.[/quote]

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