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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Question for those who mentioned getting a job or volunteering in the summers -- Let's say your child isn't motivated to do said job/volunteering. Teen would prefer to stay home and play video games. How do you get your teen on board with the goal of having activities/job/volunteering? Some say "let them follow their passion" -- but what if their only "passion" is staying home and communicating by typing with people on a group server?[/quote] Require them to find a problem they are passionate about and to do some regarding that problem. If they are not passionate about any problems, then they need to get a job.[/quote] Well, make the kid be passionate about keeping the wireless going at home by putting in overtime at his crappy fast food job. More seriously, not all kids are passionate. We sent our kid away as a Counselors Assistant. He had a great time and had the right amount of responsibility for where his head was at. It wasn't cheap, but it was a great post-Freshman summer.[/quote] Would he be interested in learning to design videogames? Or blogging video game reviews? Beta testing games for a developer? Working at Best Buy or GameStop? Re the passion stuff, that’s only highly selective schools. And blogging doesn’t check the “real job” box (nor would video game design be likely to if he’s starting from scratch). So you could just let him enjoy his downtime.[/quote]
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