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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Based on what OP has described, I can't get a good read on whether the woman is into him or not.

All that said, fwiw, I think people who are "soooooo busy" in the dating phase of life are big red flags.  I mean, this woman is in school, doesn't have a job, doesn't have a spouse, presumably doesn't own a SFH, and doesn't have kids (the big one).  Yes, school is demanding.  But I think almost anyone who has a full time job, kids, home obligations, spouse, all added together can look back on their days where their only obligation was nothing but being a full time student. And you look back and think how easy things were.  The woman can't literally be doing school for 18 hours a day 7 days a week. Because how could people go to nursing school with kids? Or a spouse that they maintain a good relationship with?  People do those things concurrently, and are successful.  Anyone who can't get their sh*t together more as a student without any other obligations is a big red flag to me.  I dated a guy in college for 3 years who was "so busy" with school, but in hind sight he was just a narcissistic drama queen who was incapable of prioritizing anyone other than himself ever.

The exception being, of course, if the "so busy" person is dating someone who for whatever reason is totally fine with it (either they like alone time, independence, or are equally busy themselves).  But if someone is already frustrated that their SO is "so busy" while you are dating, it's a big red flag for me that this isn't going to work.

So when I read OP's post, I think either the woman is a drama queen who needs to get her sh*t together, or isn't into OP.  [/quote]

Op here. She isn't just a student. She works full-time and is 6 months into a 2 years masters program for a CRNA. She spends most of her time outside of work or in class to do homework and study. You sure look down on students as if that isn't hard. You sound the drama queen. [/quote]

If she's in a 2 year masters CRNA program, she doesn't "work full time".  She has full time clinical obligations as part of her education.  The two (clinical and classwork) add up to a significant full time job. But it doesn't mean she can't find time for other things.  She's not that into you.  [/quote]

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