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Reply to "Calling all Introverts - Help me connect with my DH and DS (introverts)"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Regarding conflicts OP: I don't know that your husband's lack of desire to talk about his feelings on the spot is an introverted trait, per se. It sounds like he is a bit conflict avoidant. In any case for conflicts, I would suggest trying to write out your feelings and sharing what you wrote with him, so he can process what you're saying and think about how we wants to respond without the pressure of the moment. I do this sometimes with my very extroverted DH, although it's mostly because when he is angry he interrupts me and I don't get a chance to speak![/quote] +1 to this - my husband is very introverted (not shy, just doesn't care to spend a lot of time around people and loathes crowds). He wants to talk everything out the second it comes up and keep going till it's resolved. I think if we reach an impasse or the point where we are both very heated up, it's better to walk away and come back later when we've calmed down. [/quote]
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