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Reply to "Love is Blind, do people really think about how things will be after having kids?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am always shocked at the issues that dating people do not discuss before deciding to get married. I don't think you can truly understand how things will change once you have kids, but you sure as heck can discuss priorities, philosophy, ideas, dreams, etc. Having a unified vision for what you want your family to be like sure can help you navigate the inevitable bumps along the way. Don't be afraid to put the hard stuff on the table when you are dating![/quote] Ditto. Maybe it's because I met DH when I was 30 and he was 36 but considering if we were a good match in terms of life goals was absolutely a a topic of discussion early in our relationship. I wanted to be a mother and wasn't going to waste time dating a guy who wasn't on the same page in terms of what his life goals were.[/quote]
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