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[quote=Anonymous]I could have written this post. It is exactly how I described DH to my therapist. One difference is that we were once very sexually compatible, but ever since having kids, our sex life has been on a rapid decline. We are currently working to save our marriage because the grass isn't always greener, and neither of us is interested in being a part-time parent. While our emotional connection is currently more in the friendship realm, there is something to be said for stability. My DH is an amazing, involved, and very hands-on dad, and he takes great care of the kids and me. The desire to runaway is on my end and frankly stems from a lot of deep issues connected to childhood trauma, etc. I've committed to working on myself (as well as my marriage) because I know that if I don't figure my stuff out and I divorce my stable, reliable husband, all of the same issues will resurface in my next relationship and I'll find myself in the same situation (or possibly worse because I don't think I'll ever find someone as devoted as my DH is to my kids and me.). [/quote]
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