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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A ton of my friends met good guys after 30, but often it was through online dating. So you need to get comfortable with that.

Also, make sure your standards aren't unrealistic.  I have a bunch of unhappily single friends.  They are ALL looking for: a tall (over 6'0"), fit, handsome white guy with good hair, who is successful, educated, articulate, not weird, has friends, has a nice family, has socially acceptable hobbies and treats them like a queen.  (i.e. pays for every date, plans romantic dates), etc.

This guy is a f*cking unicorn.  There's like 3 guys who fit that description after a certain age, and they have their pick of women.  So if this is what you are looking for, you may need to relax your standards a bit.[/quote]

This is PP who traded up after divorce, after age thirty, with kids. My husband fits your description - there are plenty of men out there with these qualities. [/quote]

Agreed! I just turned 29 and, admittedly, am sometimes worried about this too, OP. I'm in business school now and have to keep reminding myself that there are actually so many wonderful guys out there who are also single. Sure, many of my classmates are already married or taken. But even if it doesn't work out with anyone in grad school, I've made some incredible male friends and they have friends and those friends have friends- so whatever city I end up in, I'm just not too worried (yet..) that I won't be in the right circles to meet this non-unicorn "unicorn" above.

Short version- I know tons of great guys who fit that description and are single post 30+. You really have nothing to worry about (at least for the next few years!) = what I keep telling myself :) [/quote]

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