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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She has given details in a million previous threads. This was not a marriage she could stay in; she stayed many years longer than she should have.

However, I'm really starting to wonder if she's for real. All of these threads suggest such a passive, do-nothing kind of person, and yet she managed to leave and get herself and her kids back to VA. [/quote]

It took a lot of threads to get her to finally leave. [/quote]

OP here. Very true. I was two months pregnant when I found out my STBX cheated on me - this was last June. He was financially controlling and I had/have limited means to leave, and felt trapped.

However, I finally reached my limit. I took out a credit card and flew back to the states with my kids three months ago. I've gotten a place, a car, and a job, enrolled my daughter in preschool, found a good caretaker for my son, and been able to manage these many moving parts on my own. I have so much more energy and joy now that I am out of that horrible marriage.

It's been encouraging to learn that I have strength and fortitude I didn't know I had. 
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Happy for you,  OP.  Now get that child support![/quote]

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