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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I really hope they come back to you, but it sounds like you were a big enough PITA during the process that they may have changed their minds. There's negotiating when you have actual leverage and there is what you did...two very different situations, I am afraid. [/quote] This. A couple of years ago, a company found my resume -- the HR person saw it, forwarded it to the hiring manager. I had applied for a job with a company they acquired several years earlier. They told me the req had been open for a year, and I was the first qualified resume. Funny thing was I was not looking. They wanted to talk; my attitude is I will always talk. We had a 15 minute phone conversation. That was going to be a prelude to an onsite interview. Instead, they offered me a position with a 10% bump, but the benefit loss would have cost me some real $$$. (I would have lost two weeks of vacation a year). More to the point, I was happy in my job. It has been very secure and I am well liked. I have been with the company for 22 years. So I asked some questions. I made it clear that the offer was flattering, but I am happy where I was. I did not ask for more money, but they offered me more -- 25K more than my then current salary, which would be a 15% bump. Only when you factor in the different benefits, such as vacation and disability, and a few other things, I would only be about 15K ahead with the new job. In the big picture, I decided not to take it. Mostly because I never met any of them. [/quote]
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