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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Because she rarely wants to have sex with me. If it can be fixed, she'll have to be part of the solution. Anything I've tried solely on my end has been ineffective. [/quote]

You haven’t tried everything.  Your wife has decided that sex isn’t important to her.  Inform her it is to you.  If she’s not interested, seek assistance outside the marriage.  She doesn’t have to know.  If she finds out, well then she should realize why you did what you did.[/quote]

I have told my wife sex is important to me. That doesn't seem to matter to her. [/quote]

Inform her you will be doing that “unimportant thing” with your new side piece.[/quote]

I wouldn’t go nuclear option yet.  Try counseling to see if you can find out why.  If that doesn’t work, then inform her since she’s not interested you’re going to find someone who is.  In order to “save” the marriage she’ll throw a session here and there that way she’ll be able to say “but we were having sex” and take away the blame. Don’t accept them, especially if it’s stsrfish sex.  Anything less then her being an enthusiastic participant won’t do, trust me.  If she throws out a piece once every couple of weeks and  she’s responsive as a dead animal, you’re going to feel like crap.  And sorry, no amount of massage pills or other foreplay activities will change that.  She’ll probably not want to do them anyways.

It’s tough man, I’ve been there.[/quote]

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