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[quote=Anonymous]OP - I understand. Also an only child now w 2 kids, good (enough) marriage. I've lost a lot of my old friendships from leaving town, it's been a slow grind to find any friendships I would want - moms just aren't interesting people who I'm around and it's mostly men at work. I've always gotten around better w boys actually - many old boyfriends are friends - married or not but I can't talk to them often for obvious reasons lol my family is non existent with divorced parents who don't talk and are dysfunctional to not want a relationship with either. Not close to my husbands family either. I'm going to tell you my secret to getting by: I do my best to get through and remember good times in my life from past. I remind myself that life is of moments stringed together some god awful and some fab. It's all just moments. I wish I had the relationships of others socially, I wish it were easy to enjoy people, I wish I had a family, etc. but I am close to my kids, DH and I can read, watch movies and TV and live in the little world that's mine. You will never stop feeling alone if you have all your life as I have. Accept and stop questioning cause people who don't get it never will and you'll never figure it out. Know that we all have moments and remember the good ones. As a good friend used to always tell me - the beautiful stand alone. I know what you are talking about and you aren't alone. But realistically you have to find your peace that in this life it is what it is. Good luck.[/quote]
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