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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I typically date someone for several months and wait until the guy suggests making it exclusive. I also ask him to get std testing first. People on this forum will say no guy will put up with that and will bolt,  but only once had I had a guy not be willing to wait.

Are you comfortable sleeping with someone who might be sleeping with or dating other people? I am not, so I wait. But if you are, go for it.

I'm assuming you're a woman. If you're a man, I recommend waiting till date five so raise sex. Kiss on the second date, hook up without sex on date three or four, but wait till the fifth or later to bring up sex.[/quote]

Guy here and if there is no goodnight kiss on the first date, I'm going to assume a lack of interest and move on.[/quote]

I'm the original poster here. My advice given about waiting till the second date to kiss is if the op is a man is the safe route and based on online dating. If you're on a first date with a woman you already met and know otherwise, that's fine to go for a kiss on a first date

And I am not opposed to kissing on a first online date myself. But the woman agreed to go on that date without meeting you, so it's just safer in terms of making her feel safe and respected to wait till the second, when she's already met you and agreed to see you again.[/quote]

+1 I am a quality, fit and attractive woman- I don't consider sex something I just give away to anybody. if you feel that you can't wait until I know you well enough, you're obviously just a F***k Boy and not worth my time. Thirsty Boys are a dime a dozen. Goodbye-don't let the door hit you in the ass.  [/quote]

You sound like a real catch. Keep it Klassy.[/quote]

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