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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here - so all the people acting like this is a normal, random thing, I would like to hear how many of you have been invited by your SO's friends to go out alone for meals, drinks, coffees, etc.? I might be old-fashioned but I just think there is something a tad off in that. However, I always give people benefit of the doubt. On the other hand, I find it funny how today's society normalizes some things that would have been unthinkable 100 years ago.[/quote]

I wouldn't do it but it's less of an opposite sex thing than compartmentalizing our friends.  Obviously my friends know my spouse and I've hung out with them and their spouses but I primarily hang out with my friends without my spouse around.  Again, it's not a cheating issue it's really just my spouse and I giving each other space to have our own friends.

Anyways, I don't think it's wrong to meet up with the friend or anything I just have a different approach with friends.  So, in your specific situation I might maybe have DH join us for coffee at the beginning and then maybe go for a walk or something and then rejoin us after the story was over.  [/quote]

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