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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Man here, I can guess at the reasons, but you need to give the details of what he said when you invited him back.  I am a typical man that would say yes in most but not every situation, so here is my guess without further details:

1) He is in a relationship and didn't have an excuse to spend the night
2) He has an STD and wants to have the talk about it 
3) He has more conservative views on sex and wants to wait until your relationship is more established.  If its this, let him make the move.
4) He had any number of physical issues that night, from bloating, to drank too much and was unsure of his erection, was generally exhausted and didn't want the first night with you to be subpar (men need to perform in bed, we can't just lie there like women can).
5) He isn't that into you.  I was single in my early 30s and had no problems finding women to have sex with, it really became not worth it if you weren't into her.  No need to be a jerk and break some girls heart or worse, have them start calling your office or confront you out when you weren't pursuing them after that night.

My guess is 1 or 3.  Assume 3, let him ask you out and make a move.  
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Another man here. My guess it's #4. #5 is a possibility except they've been on 3 dates and been physical already. #2 statistically isn't that likely. #1 she asked him to come in, but he still could have done that and gone home after. #3 she'll know based on their dates so far what he's like.[/quote]

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