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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To PPs:  so these crushes then have lasted for years even without contact with the other person?

If married, how in the world do you deal with your spouse m, daily, in the real world?[/quote]

Yes, it has gone on without contact. I have never experienced anything like this before. I felt drawn to him at first sight. I could've run to him and held him close. [b]I know he felt something for me, too.[/b] There were times when we almost grabbed each other -like out of nowhere. We are both married and [b]we never discussed the attraction.[/b] It was so uncomfortable to be around him that I changed my situation so I wouldn't see him again.

I have never cheated. I channeled the energy into my marriage.[/quote]

How could you know if you never discussed it?

Frankly, at least you didn't bring it out into the open.  The prior post about the partner having an EA, admitting the attraction but swearing to be careful?  That is the more dangerous situation.[/quote]

I could tell by how he looked at me. Also, he often ended up physically near me. A couple of times, we both out of nowhere started to reach for each other in a "familiar" way. We both dropped our hands or turned away. It was REALLY weird and uncomfortable. I would never be unfaithful and I'm sure he'd never be, either. That is why there were no discussions. I removed myself permanantly from the situation because the draw was strong and it was for sure mutual.[/quote]

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