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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So she gave up her career because he wanted a SAHM- he got free childcare free housecleaning free meals prepared for him- who knows how often he could travel on a whim thanks to his SAH wife, or maybe she shouldered the burden of grad school or a PHD where he was often gone, maybe his career demanded a transfer far away from family and friends......

He's been cheating on his wife and children and you all are angry at the MOM?

No way. When a family chooses to have a SAH model (as we did), you accept the consequences. Positive and negative ones- like having to pay alimony. [/quote]

Except this is a fantasy.

Most women don't make enough money to cover day care or they are too stressed out being a working mom. They convince their H they should stay home with the kid. Thr H still works 9-5 he is not traveling the world and becoming something he could not be one with a working wife.

Usually he is just being a good guy because the wife "cant image dropping kids at daycare".., he begrudgingly agreed to let her stay home with the expectation she will go back to work when the kids are in school.

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