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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]From a different perspective - these are the babies I always give a little extra to. Newly divorced, stressed mom, terrible baby daddy, probably lots of family drama in general - this baby needs all the help it can get to start into life right. Most dual income, married, employed familiesdont need the gift "showered" on them when a baby is born; the reality is in these types of scenarios, the families often DO need the gifts. Don't think of it as a reward, think of it as a needed hand and a kindnessfor the baby.  [/quote]

That makes sense really. I can do that. I want to help them all be OK without enabling her and her bad choices. 
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Really? Do you think when she's presented with the next option for a one-night stand she's going to make her decision based on whether or not you offered a gift and well-wishes? [/quote]

Maybe if she has a family of enablers, she can have as many babies and baby daddies as possible.[/quote]

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