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Reply to "Not going to cheat, but need help getting over emotional infatuation"
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[quote=Anonymous]I posted about this last year and got some good advice. Have you read about limerance? I was in a complicated medical situation a few years ago and fell for my doctor. It was an emotionally intense time and who knows why. I did get past it, though it negatively affected my relationship. I had contact with him last year and that put me in another tailspin. I considered medication to help get rid of obsessive thought and ultimately that helped a bit. I just have to live with it I guess. With social media and such these days it's easy to find ways to undermine the distance and space needed to get over things like this. It's tough. It happens to very successful, otherwise together people. We're all vulnerable. Try if you can to focus on what is missing that led you to be so attracted. Maybe you're in need of more effusive praise or enthusiasm from your partner. It's hard so just recognize your vulnerability is very human and do your best to live your values and find ways to be happy.[/quote]
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