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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You don't have kids?  You want kids?  Most women become horrified by anyone touching them for years after the kids arrive.  You may be relieved to be married to a low drive man.  Seriously, think about it.[/quote]

No kids, and can't have any (don't want any either for that matter). We are both low drive and so that's another plus for staying with him in my book...  I think I would resent him if he was constantly asking for sex but not wanting to give anything else physical into the relationship.

I operate with the mindset that if someone were to come along who was exactly like him in every way, but also had the affection piece, I would leave my husband for him. [b]I don't know how realistic that is or if thinking that way means I should just get divorced now.  [/b]I don't really want to get a divorce, the other 90% or so of my life is pretty good.[/quote]

Yes it is realistic and YES you should get divorced now in order to find it!

Do you honestly believe most married couples stay together out of inertia rather than true affection? Most happily married couples LOVE each other! You are choosing to waste your one life on something blah. I don't get it.[/quote]

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