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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]#1 kids
#2 wife
#3 dog
#4 college fund
#5 dad

Why do you think so many DH toil away as breadwinner while wives stay home with kids?  This is how has always been, natural order to some degree. [/quote]

Dad here, I agree on this.  But I also had affairs, which were also part of the natural order of things.  Can't have one without the other.[/quote]

Yup, this is the only normal reaction.  I would certainly have affairs if I was considered an accessory and a means to an ends. [/quote]

You are not an accessory but you are an adult and a teammate.  Not an additional child that she must tend.  Being #1 as an adult is a totally different thing than being #1 as a child.

Or maybe you aren't #1 and you should look in the mirror and wonder why .[/quote]

I totally get this now. Years ago single friend who adopted her sister's kids, said she didn't want a man because it just seemed like it would be someone else to care for. I rebuffed thinking she was being over dramatic. Having been married for a decade I get it. Men (self included) can be big babies and they want way more than a banana and hug.[/quote]

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