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[quote=Anonymous]If you even have to ask this, I agree that you are not mature enough to get married.

You don't do this.  If you insist you must have even numbers, then you find another male friend to make another groomsman.  The only acceptable reasons to ask someone to step down is if they have a reason that they can't participate in the pre-wedding plans, AND only if you feel that it would things easier on them, not for you.  For example, if you had a bridesmaid whose father was dying and was in hospice and she would need to be at the hospital/hospice off and on and you didn't even know if she would be able to make the wedding.  Even then, you ask if they want to step down, not ask them to step down.

We had uneven numbers (we had 3 men and 2 women).  We had the best man walk down the aisle first by himself, then the other two groomsmen escorted each of the bridesmaids.  You can have your two closest friends or perhaps two married bridesmatrons walk down the aisle together (side by side instead of arm in arm) and then have couples.  [/quote]

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