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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is also something you should not withhold from future partners (once things begin to get serious).[/quote]

Yes, that makes sense on a few levels.  I suppose the reactions from future partners will be as vary based upon personality but it has crossed my mind that certainly some % of future partners will exclude me from consideration based upon this alone.  I stated it above but I'm keenly aware that it reflects a monumental lack of judgment.[/quote]

I would probably reject you because you seem to have no interest in a child of yours.  That is scarier than the fact the child exists by far.[/quote]

This is exactly how I feel. Guy who has a child from a ONS / accidental pregnancy: ok, fine, happens. Guy who has a child he makes zero effort to see, ever, and quite blatantly does not care to know: RED FLAG[/quote]

I would reject both. There's no excuse for an oops ONS  baby over the age of 20.   That tells me he's likely reckless with his sexual health.

You don't get points for doing what you should do  ( taking care of your kid)  in my book.

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Birth control can fail. Would you interview every prospective partner to make sure they'd never had a ONS over the age of 20, child or no?[/quote]

Not as often a people claim it was. More likely OP didn't use a  condom, and just assumed she was on the pill and here we are.

I wouldn't date a man with a child. Not interested.[/quote]

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