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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is also something you should not withhold from future partners (once things begin to get serious).[/quote]

Yes, that makes sense on a few levels.  I suppose the reactions from future partners will be as vary based upon personality but it has crossed my mind that certainly some % of future partners will exclude me from consideration based upon this alone.  I stated it above but I'm keenly aware that it reflects a monumental lack of judgment.[/quote]

I would probably reject you because you seem to have no interest in a child of yours.  That is scarier than the fact the child exists by far.[/quote]

This is exactly how I feel. Guy who has a child from a ONS / accidental pregnancy: ok, fine, happens. Guy who has a child he makes zero effort to see, ever, and quite blatantly does not care to know: RED FLAG[/quote]

100%, especially if he made no effort to even explore the possibility of a relationship with the child.[/quote]

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