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[quote=Anonymous]OP: I'm sorry that you're feelings are hurt. Therer's no easy way to hear that or to bring it up. However, people need to ne attracted to their spouse. Unfortunately, attraction rarely follows the norms of political correctness. He may have done a crappy job of verbalizing it to you but at least he tried to communicate his needs to you. One of the relationship systems that my spoise and I use is from. The book His Needs/Her Needs. In the book the author outlines the top needs for both husbands and wives. This may shock you (actually it won't at all) but the men's top two needs are: 1. Sex 2. To be attracted to their spouse. I would read the book with him and discuss your needs vs his. There's probably somewhere that he's not meeting your needs. Maybe you can reach an agreement with him where he works on his part and you work on yours. I think you could exit with a stronger/happier marriage for both of you and a healthier lifestyle for yourself.[/quote]
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