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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm going to admit it... I wasn't up to date on the non-binary culture until recently when my daughter's classmate came over to work on a project and beforehand my daughter said, "mom, just so you know, Alex is non-binary." I had to do some quick Googling even after she explained it to me and really think about what I was going to say before I said anything out loud. I did slip once with "do you guys need a snack?" and I got the Teen Eyeroll of Doom from my kid. But now that I've learned about non-binary, I do see it more and more around me. During a college visit, many of the kids introducing themselves in the small tour group started with, "I'm Jane, I go by she/her" and "I'm Paul, they/them, please." [/quote] Why are you letting a teenager to dictate to you how to use English language? If your teen decides to ride in the car naked for example, will you go along with that? Just because they feel like that it doesn't mean that you have to change your language, values, manners, etc. If the teen doesn't feel comfortable when you call Alex by her or his gender, then he or she has a choice not to come to your house. I would never bend to the teens' crap. [/quote] + 1,000,000 And, if on a college tour with my DC, a kid introduced him or herself and then proceeded to state preferred pronouns, it would be all I could do to keep from laughing. Or perhaps chime in from the back of the group, "please refer to me as Your Royal Highness."[/quote] I cannot love this enough! There's no way I'm creating new rules for pronouns, nor for who is male/female. [/quote]
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